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25 signs he's scared of how much he likes you

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Have you ever wondered why he is so distant?

You immediately think he's not into you. But believe me, it doesn't have to be like that. Men are not like us.

Most of them are not used to expressing their feelings and they are actually afraid of the new feelings that build up in them. And then we are the ones who deal with the questions: Does he like me Does he have feelings for me? Is he even interested?Is he in love with me or does he just like me?When does a man confess his feelings? etc. have to deal with.

But we women too often think about everything that men tell us and analyze their behavior and every single word: What does he mean when he says it was nice? He says he likes me but he gets out of my way, why is he doing this? He says he can't give me what I need ...

Men often act like “I'm a macho, love can't harm me” and then suddenly it goes BOOM and they are head over heels in love with you.

Of course there are men who are just looking for excuses to take advantage of you and tell you with a phrase like: I'm not ready for a relationship right now or I am unable to relate can refuse.

This is how you can tell if he's a man who doesn't really like you and is looking for excuses, or if he's a shy man who is crazy about you but doesn't dare to admit it to you.

And remember that he's not aloof - he's just experiencing new feelings and maybe doesn't know how to deal with them.

Keep this in mind and read the following article carefully.

These are clear signs that he likes you, but that he is terrified of simply listening to his heart.

1. He's staring at you

Do you know the feeling when you feel that someone is watching you?

That he's watching you?

You know he's staring at you and thinking about how lucky he is that he won you over.

Yeah and it feels so good You don't want to turn your head or you would ruin the moment.

When he realizes that you like him, that you know he's watching you, he may stop because he's scared of admitting to himself and yourself that he likes you.

2. He has been injured before

Every now and then he will mention that he has been injured before and he will do everything possible to avoid it in the future.

That's why he doesn't give everything in your relationship.

He's afraid that you will break his heart, just like the woman in front of you. And that's perfectly normal. Put yourself in his shoes.

If a man broke your heart, would you trust someone right away or would you play it safe until you can guarantee this won't happen again?

3. Should I or should I not?

This is an obvious sign that he cares about you but is afraid of it.

One moment he is very lovable and nice and he is interested in you and the next moment he is distant and cold.

It looks like an endless struggle is going on inside him.

Will he let you into his heart or not?

He's sending you mixed signals and you're not sure how to react.

Will you leave him because you think he is playing the wrong game with you or will you stay with him long enough until he comes out of himself and says "I LIKE YOU". It depends on you!

4. He spends time with you

He takes you out, he invites you to the cinema and so on. That means he likes you.

If he didn't want to spend time with you or if he was only interested in you, e.g. because he

Wants sex from you, then he wouldn't call you and wouldn't want to spend time with you.

He's comfortable around you, but he's not going to admit it just yet.

5. He doesn't take the first step

You are convinced that he likes you. All the signs are clear and precise, but he just doesn't take the first step.

You just know this is the truth because he looks at you in a certain way and talks to you in a certain way.

Let's put it this way: when a man likes you, you just know, you feel it.

And as I said before, if he doesn't dare to take the first step, even though he really wants to, then that's a sign that he doesn't dare.

Someone broke their heart, or maybe they're intimidated by you, or maybe they think you're too good for them.

Once you realize which of these three reasons it is, tell him that it is okay to approach you and that you want him to do it.

6. He's nervous around you

Has it ever happened to you that he is nervous or acting strangely around you?

He's nervous about something, but you're not sure what it is.

Well my darling, this is a sign that he likes you but is scared of it.

He's just afraid that he will do or say something that would ruin everything between you.

He wants everything to be perfect. It's like when something is very important to you or you are very interested in something.

Therefore, it is normal for you to be nervous and for your palms to start sweating because you care so much about the result.

The same thing happens to him, only you are the result.

7. His friends know but you don't

This is the biggest and clearest sign that he's scared of how much he likes you.

If you're the number 1 topic among his friends, then you've made it.

Girls, when he talks about you to his friends, he really likes you because men don't seriously talk about women unless they plan on dating them.

If his friends tell you that, you're in luck.

8. It will turn red when you are around

I know you all think that only women blush this is wrong! Men also blush because of women they like.

If you catch him blushing while you are telling him your life story, it is a sign that he likes you but is too scared to admit it.

This means that he really cares about you and what you think of him.

He wants to make a good impression on you.

You have to make him feel comfortable around you and ask him questions.

This will lead your first date in the right direction

9. He sweats

We all tend to sweat when faced with new things.

Because of this, you can imagine how anxious and nervous your husband will be when you first meet.

He will try to be the best version of himself, but at the same time he will show all the symptoms of nervousness.

Don't be too hard on him. Try to calm him down by laughing at his jokes or asking questions.

He's only giving you one clue that he cares about you, but he's too scared to admit it.

Please respect that, maybe he'll end up being your soulmate

10. He compliments you

We all know what it means when a man compliments you.

Is that a sign that he likes me?

Naturally! He does this so he can see how you react to it.

And admits, it feels great when a guy tells you on a date how great you look in that tight dress. I could listen to this all day and you?

11. He opens the door for you

That's a sign that he likes you, but it's also a sign that your man is a real gentleman.

Let us face the truth ladies, there are not many gentlemen left in this world. All men just want to get us to bed.

If a man does this on the first date and on all subsequent dates as well, then you can consider yourself very lucky because this is a man you should catch yourself.

12. He laughs at your jokes

You don't even have to be good at telling jokes. He'll laugh at it anyway.

This is a clear sign that he likes you, but that he's too scared to admit it.

He's just trying to create a comfortable atmosphere for both of you and laughing at your jokes is the first step in that direction.

If you get positive feedback, you will be able to relax and enjoy the rest of the evening.

Some people are just made to brighten up our day, right?

13. He listens to your problems

A man who listens to your problems will be a good partner.

This is a sign that he cares about you, but that he's scared to tell you because he thinks you're going to freak out.

He just shows you that no matter what, he will just be there and that he will protect you from bad people and bad things.

You are very lucky to have a man like that in your life. So make sure you support him too.

14. He breaks eye contact

Body language is very important, especially when we are just beginning a relationship.

In these moments we don't know whether a man likes us or not and often we ask ourselves: Does he just like me or is there more? Did he develop feelings for me? Etc.

If you look at him and he breaks eye contact at that moment, that is a clear indication that he loves you but that he is afraid to tell you.

In fact, he may never be brave enough to tell you these words.

Maybe he will feel a lot better just texting you that he loves you and that he cares about you.

This is a sign of true love, but it's also a sign that he is still feeling nervous around you.

I bet you have a good strategy to make him relax, right?

15. He doesn't ask you out on a date

You are probably wondering why this can be a sign that he likes you. Right!

Oh well. Girls, you have to understand that sometimes the best men are the shyest men.

Maybe he'd wanted to ask you for days, but maybe he just couldn't find the time to do it. Don't cross him off your list right now. Give him a chance.

Maybe he's the cutest man in the whole world and maybe he will make you the happiest woman on the planet.

16. He's protective of you

If you have a problem, he will do everything possible to solve it. This is how he shows you his love.

This is one of the clearest signs that he loves you.

He just needs a little more time to get his feelings together.

And it will take a lot more time for him to actually admit that he loves you.

Men are like that, we have to understand that. But hey, that's why we like her so much after all!

17. He's writing to you

A man who likes you wants to know how your day was.

He may text you to wish you a good morning, or he may even ask you during your break if you would like to have breakfast with him.

The thing is, he wants to spend as much time with you as possible.

This is a sign that he likes you but is too scared to admit it.

He just wants to get to know you better before he says the three most beautiful words in the whole world: “I love you”!

18. He becomes jealous when another man is around you

Even if the two of you aren't an official couple yet, he'll be jealous when another man is around you.

You are probably wondering: Why is he jealous even though we are not together?

Well, he sees a potential competitor and he won't care.

He tries to protect you from all these men and he wants you to be his only.

This is an indication of how much he likes you, but that he's too shy to admit it.

He'd rather scare away the other men around you than admit his feelings. What can I say, men are just complicated.

19. He doesn't want to give your relationship an official name just yet, but it's obvious that he likes you because he looks at you in a special way

He says he's not in love, but does he act like that? When you're around, does he always have those doggie eyes and he can't take them away from you?

Then don't believe him because he's crazy about you.

He thinks you are the perfect woman and he wants you in his life. He loves you from head to toe.

In fact, this man is madly in love with you, but he's too shy to admit to himself.

20. He doesn't mention other women

It looks like he found what he was looking for and there is no need to mention other women.

In fact, he's only interested in you right now and there's nothing he can do about it.

His friends tease him for being a sissy, but he doesn't care.

He just wants one woman in his life and that woman is you!

21. He gives you all of his support

Whether you have a problem or just going through a difficult period in your life, he is there for you to comfort you a little.

He knows that being with a loved one is really important.

That's why he does his best so that he can be with you whenever you need him.

He really is a man you can rely on and he doesn't mind moving mountains just to help you

22. He pays attention to the details

If he can remember your dog's name or where you were last on vacation, it means he has feelings for you.

If a man is not interested in you, then he will make no effort to remember such things.

This is a clear indication that you really mean a lot to him and that he really cares about you.

23. His friends reveal his secret

If his friends tell you that he likes you, then there is no doubt that it is true.

He will tell them if he likes someone and in that case you are that person.

Now it's up to you whether you will give him a chance or not or whether you just want to break his fragile heart.

P.S .: I hope that you are not so numb.

24. He is sad when you are sad

If you are sad because something bad has happened to you, then he will share your sadness with you.

If he likes you, then he will not be able to be happy and laugh while you are depressed and sad.

This is a guy who really cares about the girl he likes and he is definitely worth getting a chance.

Not to mention that he's husband-grade material and that he would likely do anything to make you the happiest woman on earth.

25. He tells you that he likes you

He can't stand being around all the time without telling you what his real feelings are. That's why he breaks the ice and confesses his feelings to you.

He says he likes you and that he would be honored if you gave him a chance.

He likes you so much that he forgets how shy he is about women.

When a man says: I want you - then he means that. When he says: You are important to me - then he means that. When he says: I love you - then he means that.

This is the clearest sign that he's really into you.

Sometimes we just have to relax and take their word for it and enjoy love.


These are just some of the signs that he likes you but is scared of it.

The best way to find out if a man likes you is to just ask him.

But how can I ask him how he feels about me?

Well, easy. Open and direct. You deserve to know where you are.

But if you're not brave enough to do that, then you can count on these signs too, which are proven to indicate that a man is into you.

The most important thing is that you will feel whether he really likes you or not.

This can help you figure out whether or not he really cares about you.

If you are really sure that he likes you, then spend a little more time with him and he will come out of himself and let the feelings run wild.

It's only a matter of time!